Audio Mega Course Featuring Over Seven Hours Of Content

I believe everyone has a responsibility to work on themselves so they bring more to the table in their relationship.  If you're not in a relationship, this course will help you be a better version of yourself for your next one so it's not like the last one.

- Over nine hours of audio (with 17 lessons).  

- Casual over clinical, like we're having coffee. (Just like my podcast).

- Listen to it from anywhere.  Work on yourself while you're sitting in traffic.

- Homework assignments.

- 23 of my blog articles about love and relationships all in one place.

It's Time To Bring More To The Table

As a marriage family therapist and relationship coach, I've coached thousands on their relationships. This course is an cummulation of learnings from those sessions but also my own personal love experiences.  I'll help you develop the tools you need to build a sustaining relationship.  If you're not in a relationship, you will only bring more to the table for when you find someone who deserves you.

17 Lessons, 8 Assignments, & 23 Articles

How This Works / Why Audio
Your Definitions of Love
Homework #1
The 3 Year Itch
Attachment Styles And How They Impact Your Relationship
Deeper On Attachment Styles (personal shares from my girlfriend and I)
What's Your Attachment Style Quiz
What's Your Partner's Attachment Style Quiz
Homework #2
Love Languages
Homework #3
Love Languages Quiz
Creating a Safe Space / Active listening
The Subtext (What's happening underneath)
What If You're Not Feeling It Anymore?
Homework #4
How to Apologize For Reals
Residue From The Old (examining the black box)
How To Deal With Jealousy
Pursuer / Distancer
A Conversation About Codependency
The Importance of Having Your Own life
Realigning Your Relationship (5 Steps)
Finding Beauty In The Contrast
Rediscovering your partner
Homework #5
How to Make Your Relationship Grow
Homework #6
How to Hold Instead of Grab
Homework #7
4 Things That Crumble Your Relationship
How To Take Ownership / Why It's More For You Than Him/Her
My Personal Love Lessons
Me and Vanessa's Love Lessons
Love Is About Finding You
Relationships & Astrology Signs
Conclusion & Afterthoughts
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  • John's relationship course guides you back to yourself, helping you fine tune the details and figure out EXACTLY what you want out of a relationship. It's as though John's therapy and life coach training had a baby. Born, was a thoughtful, honest, funny, refreshing perspective on relationships, self, and how can form deeper connections. I highly recommend this course to anyone looking to up their relationship game.

    — Kristie
  • I decided to get this course not because my husband and I are struggling 24/7, but we're technically still newlyweds and want to keep building/strengthening the relationship after the "I do's

    — Gina
  • Your bulletproof audio course chapter on get a life and pursuer / distancer helped reframe my perspective on things and helped me focus back on me

    — Stephanie
  • A significant takeaway from your Bulletproof audio course for me, is that working on improving yourself as an individual has a far greater impact on a relationship than working on improving someone else.

    — Mae-lee
  • This was amazing and awesome! I have been through a huge transformation of my "self" , my "expanding" myself over the last several years b/c of a very dysfunctional relationship (of 25 years) that I'm finally free of. This is exactly what I am working on and have been and love this! thank you!

    — Jamie Rindt
  • I've done all the homework so far and I'm getting SO much out of it. Writing things down really brings so much more clarity and gives me the chance to go back over what I've worked on. Thanks for giving such thoughtful and meaningful homework.

    — Michelle

Frequently Asked Questions

How long do I have access to the course?

Forever! Once you've enrolled and paid, you'll have access to the course material for as long as you need. So devour it all in one weekend or take things slow. It's your choice!

What will I get out of this course?

A blueprint on how to start loving in a healthier way. New love definitions. Revelations about yourself and how you love. Learning about your unhealthy patterns and what you can do to fix them. Basically, better relationships.

I still have a question, how can I contact you?

I'd be happy to answer any questions you might have. Send me an email at

Relationship better.