From Self-Love to True Love

Learn to love and value yourself and attract true love by nailing self-love first.

This is a self-study course that will teach you how to love and respect yourself so you stop settling and compromising in love and start attracting men who will love and respect you back. 

I know what you want my dear, 

You want to love and be loved. You want to have a relationship which lasts longer than a few months. A relationship where you feel FREE TO BE YOURSELF and respected for who you are. A relationship with a man who is your best friend, your biggest supporter, your solid rock and a considerate lover.

I know what you want because for many years I wanted the same thing and despite looking REALLY hard, I couldn’t find it.

I wanted to meet a man whom I could have a deep unshakable connection with. I wanted to be able to be me with him without second guessing and walking on eggshells. I wanted to FEEL IMPORTANT in my relationship not just to be one of many options. I wanted my man to feel proud to have me beside him. I wanted his love, his commitment and his support.

I never seemed to be able to attract this kind of love though!

It was a mystery to me how some women managed to do it. I kept asking myself – How do they do it? Where do they find men like that? It felt like this kind of love was unattainable to me.

So, I carried on chasing men, in the hope that I would find THE PERFECT ONE. I craved their love and approval. I was a queen of accommodating, justifying and compromising just to keep the relationships going. I didn’t have much dignity in the love department. I was oozing DESPERATION.

I became a compulsive dater. I was jumping from one relationship to another in hope that the next guy would give me what I needed. I wasted tones of time for relationships with guys who didn’t want to commit, who were looking for something casual and just threw me CRUMBS OF LOVE. Sadly, I picked up every last crumb, it was shameful.

The problem was I didn’t see how valuable I was. I didn’t know I deserved better. I didn’t feel worthy of love. 

So, I stopped chasing love. I recognised I needed to do some work, not on getting a man, but ON ME. I needed to get to the place where I knew MY WORTH and was able to promise myself not to settle again.

When I shifted my attention from loving a man to loving myself and I put the self-care work in, the most incredible thing happened… 

I actually attracted true love! 

I am now with a man who feels proud to have me at his side, who loves me even when I don’t love myself and who is 100% committed to our relationship and family.


  • It is lack of self-love which makes you lose yourself in relationships,
  • It is lack of self-love which makes you compromise too much in the name of love,
  • It is lack of self-love which makes you end up with the wrong guys who vanish after a few months.

So, if you are not getting what you want in love there is work to be done.

And this course will help you love, value and respect yourself so you step up and go for what you truly deserve in love and life!

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This Is What The Course Covers

Most lessons include an audio and a corresponding exercise and some journaling prompts. In Lesson 5 you will also find a nice meditation instead of an exercise.

Lesson 1 - Your Definition Of Self-Love
Lesson 2 - What Is Self-Love?
Lesson 3 - Set Your Self-Love Routine
Lesson 4 - What Is Not Self-Love?
Lesson 5 - Shift Your Self-Love Blocks (I'm not enough and I'm not worthy)
Lesson 6 - Ask For Loving Feedback
Lesson 7 - Your 4 Powerful Resources
Lesson 8 - Your Core Values
Lesson 9 - Be Loving With Yourself
Lesson 10 - Let Yourself Be Vulnerable
Lesson 11 - Your Boundaries and Standards
Lesson 12 - 100 Reasons Why...
Lesson 13 - Stop Being Hard On Yourself
Lesson 14 - Why Self-Love Is Key To Finding True Love?
Lesson 15 - Your Self-Love Manifesto


As a result of this programme, you will:

• Stop getting involved in dead-end relationships and waste time for the wrong guys

• Have the courage to walk away from the relationships which don’t serve you

• Become more selective in dating which will eliminate all the jerks and time wasters 

• Start attracting high-quality men who want you and are commitment-ready 

• Have strong boundaries in dating and relationships 

• Stop getting hurt and make wiser relationship choices 

• Feel complete, worthy of love and lovable without a man

• Recognise your own value and stop compromising too much in love 

 Feel empowered and stop losing yourself and your power in relationships 

• Stop trying to be someone else to be liked and please others just to get approval

• Stop neglecting and abandoning yourself and become priority number one in your life 

 Trust yourself and respect your own feelings more 

• Be more accepting, compassionate and kind with yourself

• Stop betraying yourself and your values in the name of love

• Become your first cheerleader and supporter 

• Be in charge of your love life and become the one who gets to choose

• Feel stronger, more confident and less insecure

• Become more assertive and have more self-esteem and self-respect 

 Stop chasing men and feel desperate for a relationship

 Put yourself first, so you can live a happier and more fulfilled life

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What My Clients Say

Before I met Aska, I was feeling overwhelmed with all the dating tips and suggestions to make a guy “fall for me”. I decided to look for a dating coach for guidance on what I should be doing to have a more successful dating life. Aska helped me to see that other than doing more to get the guy, I needed to do less and let go of a lot of the bad advice I had accumulated over the years. She was great at seeing through all the beliefs I had about dating, men, or myself that weren’t serving me. During our sessions, Aska was encouraging and really pushed me out of my comfort zone. I’d say I walked away from my experience with Aska with more confidence, more love and respect for myself, more clarity for what I want in a relationship, and am able to connect more easily with men. I’ve been having a blast dating! It’s fun and easy rather than a chore. I’m excited to get out there and have fun! Thanks to help me get to this awesome place Aska! Lorin, Physician, Utah, USA

I really, really love your program. Love the exercises. I am so glad I invested in your online program. This is the best program I’ve come across. It made me think deeply and explore my blind spots. You are straight to the point and it just really resonates with me and gets to the core. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have a gift Aska of really helping women finding love within themselves. Ann, Accountant for Orange, California US

I’ve got so much to tell you. You are great! Since doing the Dating Detox I’ve enquired about several different dancing classes I’m joining in the new year. A world cinema film club I’ll join. I’ve joined a dating website which is stepping out of my comfort zone. I asked a bloke at work to go to the pub for lunch with me and we did. I’m making my flat sexier for when I meet a guy. Claire, Interpreter, London, UK

I’d been dating on and off for about a year when I joined Aska’s ‘Romancing Yourself’ challenge; if you can’t love yourself first… how are you going to be able to really love someone else? It was a warm and welcoming group, with questions and exercises that really made me think. The initial ‘Letting Go’ exercise was profound for me. Clearly, it shifted something in my energy…. the day after the course finished I had a first date with the most amazing man who is everything that I have been looking for, and we’re blissfully happy together. Aska is just so good at asking the right questions and creating a supportive community of women journeying to self-love. Aska, you are awesome and you have worked your magic! Thank you! April, Managing Director, Surrey, UK

Just imagine...

Experiencing the kind of love where your partner loves you for who you are, completely, with your quirks, flaws and imperfections.

HE IS FULLY COMMITTED. He loves being with you. He doesn’t give you one reason to doubt his feelings for you. You just know in your whole body that he is the right guy.

Just imagine being with a man that you don’t need to pretend around or accommodate. Being in a relationship in which you can SPEAK YOUR TRUTH and be understood. A relationship in which you don’t lose yourself, you express yourself freely and set YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES.

Imagine a relationship in which you feel powerful, secure and DEEPLY LOVED and respected.

A relationship in which he takes responsibility for his half of the relationship and wants to work on it, so you grow, stay strong and become an AMAZING TEAM.

I can absolutely guarantee you that after this course you won’t settle for anything less than this!

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What Change Will I See In My Life After The Course?

- You will have more dignity and pride

- You will respect and value yourself more

- You will become a woman who stands in her own power, finally feels WORTHY and makes empowered romantic choices

- You will never need to compromise in love and put up with relationships that don't fulfil you and make you happy 

- You will become the woman who is respected by men, ready to be loved and absolutely determined to wait for the right guy and NEVER SETTLE.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who Is The Course For?

This programme is specifically designed for single women who: • Are fed up with constantly attracting jerks, emotionally unavailable men or narcissists • Have been ghosted and have been left heart broken and humiliated as a result • Have experienced enough shit in love and now want to get ready for true love and attract a commitment-ready guy • Want to respect themselves more and feel more secure within • Want to stop losing themselves in relationships and stand in their own unique power • Are sick and tired of using “tactics” to attract or get a man to love them • Are exhausted with putting everyone else first, over giving, people pleasing and want to set strong boundaries to honour their own needs • Want to improve their self-esteem and discover their true worth

Who Is It Not For?

This programme is definitely not for women who: • Just want a quick dating strategy to find love • Are not so keen on doing the deep inner work which will create permanent shifts within them • Always have lots of excuses • Are not willing to invest in themselves and want to do it all by themselves • Are not into personal development

Is This Course About Self-Care?

Yes, to some degree but not what you have heard before. We won’t be focusing on having more bubble baths, regular trips to your hairdressers or getting monthly massages. True Self-Love is more complex than that, and we are going to dive deep!

What Is True Self-Love Then?

True Self-love is about: • Choosing yourself • Prioritising yourself • Being there for yourself when life gets tough • Being authentic • Being true to yourself • Being vulnerable • Having healthy boundaries • Respecting yourself and your values • Honouring yourself and your needs

How Much Time Will I Need To Do The Work?

This programme will require some dedication. There is no transformation without work! You will need approximately 45-60 mins every other day to do the work. If you don’t have that much time during the week you can easily catch up on the exercises on the weekend because the tasks on the weekend will be less demanding. But I do recommend doing the work on the day when it’s released so you are up to date and can interact with the group!

Why Work With Me?

Because I have been through it all. I was lost like you. I kept being ghosted and getting hurt in love on regular basis. I kept falling for the wrong guys. My relationships never lasted for longer than a year. I didn’t see my own value and as a result I would hang on to anybody who gave me a bit of attention and affection.

One day I decided ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH. That was the day when I CLAIMED MY WORTH and I can help you do the same. I did the inner work to become the woman who I needed to be to attract my dream man and now I am with him.

I can also save you lots of heartache and speed up the process of finding love. I know how to guide you to yourself and to your romantic happiness with the most compatible man.

I cut through the BS. My courses don’t focus on dating strategies or dating rules because I go to the core of the problem. You need to love yourself fully and find your self-worth to be able to find amazing love. Not another seduction technique or dating trick.

How long do I have access to the course?

Forever! Once you've enrolled and paid, you'll have access to the course material (and all the future updates) for as long as you need.

What if I'm unhappy with my purchase?

Well, I would be sad. But if you're really unhappy with the course, just email me within 7 days to get a full refund.

I still have a question, how can I contact you?

I'd be happy to answer any questions you might have. Send me an email at

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Learn to love and value yourself and attract true love by nailing self-love first.